โThe Lord heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds -healing their pain and comforting their sorrow.โ Psalm 147:3 AMP
Our wounds can be the beginning to something beautiful. And our weaknesses can be a containerย for Godโs glory. We all break because of what has been done to us or what weโve done. Most of us probably experience both kinds of brokenness. But Jesus allowed his body to be broken for ourย brokenness. God invites us to exchange our brokenness for his wholeness. So donโt hide yourย broken bits in shame or denial. Can you hear him inviting you to come close and allow him toย change you from the inside out? Are you willing to be transformed? Bring whatโs broken to Jesus.ย Let him transform it with his love and Spiritโs power. And find hope and freedom to be transformedย by being in Godโs presence.ย
We all have experienced pain, in our hearts, our souls and our bodies. Very often the way we dealย with the pain is either trying to numb it or hide it. In our heads we are preserving our dignity byย denying our reality. But we can be free from our pain, but first we must be honest and walkย through it! Sometimes the pain is so great, we might feel itโs unbearable. But there is good news; ourย suffering is limited to this life. Revelation 21:4 He will wipe every tear from their eyes, and there ย will be no more death or sorrow or crying or pain. All these things are gone forever.โ And even greater news: Godโs comfort, contentment and joy will last forever.ย ย
When our reality or pain is hard, we want to hide it or forget it! When we do that, that secret is theย very thing that the enemy uses to torment us. Most of us keep secrets because we fear to beย rejected or judged! We desire to feel accepted. We are afraid of losing a relationship, losing ourย reputation or โlosing our securityโ Matthew 10: 26 says: Therefore do not fear them, for there isย nothing concealed that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. โWhat I tell you inย the darkness, speak in the light; and what you hear whispered in your ear, proclaim upon theย housetops. โDo not fear those who kill the body but are unable to kill the soul; but rather fearย Him who is able to destroy both soul and body in hell. โAre not two sparrows sold for a cent?ย And yet not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father. โSo do not fear; you areย more valuable than many sparrows. In this verse Jesus speaks to you and me directly: Your value andย your worth are in Him, not in whomever we think it is! Stop seeking approval and finding yourย worth in people! YOU ARE WORTH JESUS'S BLOOD AND DEATH.ย
As humans when our innocence is abused and our beauty is tarnished we feel shame. We mightย even believe that whatever happened to us is our fault, we start believing that we somehowย deserved it and we start living a life of ashes. We feel worthless of living, worthless of love andย worthless of our calling. But I am here to tell you that Jesus does not see our shame! If we haveย Jesus in our heart and have proclaimed Him as Lord and savior! We are made new!!!! We have beenย redeemed, made beautiful and dignified. His blood and His grace covered our shameful past, all ourย mistakes and all our shortcomings. Isaiah 54:4 โFear not; you will no longer live in shame. Donโtย be afraid; there is no more disgrace for you. You will no longer remember the shame of yourย youth and the sorrows of widowhood.โ So wherever it is that is causing shame in your life, FEARย NOT! His grace is enough!!!! "2 Corinthians 12:9 says: My grace is all you need, for my power isย greatest when you are weak." He promised us in Isaiah 1:18 (listen well) โ"Come now; let usย settle the matter," says the LORD. โThough your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white asย snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.ย
When we keep secrets and live in shame, we believe lies! We are pretty much giving the enemy theย weapon against us. Think about it, we all know that the enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy. Ifย you find an intruder in your house, would you hand him a knife or a gun to hurt you? I DONโT THINK SO! So why would you give the enemy authority over your mind and your life and whyย would you allow him to steal your joy, to rob your identity, to hinder your calling and to destroy your future??? It doesnโt matter what you have done!!!!!!
You might be thinking Oh Karla, but youย really donโt know what Iโve doneโฆ. You are right! I donโt! But I can tell you that the enemy does,ย BUT guess what? GOD also knows!!!!! Genesis 50:20 says: โYou intended to harm me, but Godย intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives. 1 John 4:4ย says you, dear children, is from God and has overcome them, because the one who is in you isย greater than the one who is in the world. STOP giving the enemy more power than what he has; he was put to shame when Jesus conquered the grave. When Jesus was crucified the enemyย thought he had won. But then GOD turned around for good! For our good!!! So we could be savedย and so we could have an eternal life and abundant life through Him, in Him and for His glory!
Soย yeah, I donโt know what you have doneโฆBut I know what Iโve done and what God has done in me!!! God has redeemed me from the effects and the pain caused by: Abuse, alcoholism,ย pornography, promiscuity, depression, anxiety, abandonment, rejection, suicidal attempts, eatingย disorder, codependency, anger, bitterness, compulsive behaviors, PTSD, fear, etc. Did I ever wantย to admit all those things to anyone? NO. Did I ever think God could redeem someone like me?ย NO. Did I ever think I was going to make it through? NO! Did I ever think that God could use me? NO. But God did! God wanted to break the chains, break the shame and break the lies that theย enemy was using to destroy my life and to hinder Godโs perfect plan and calling for my life. Godย wants you to stop believing the lies that the enemy is using against you! He wants you to believe His truth. He says in John 8:31-32 Jesus said to the people who believed in him, โYou are truly myย disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings. And you will know the truth, and the truth willย set you free.โ Then in verse 36 He says: โSo if the Son sets you free, you are truly freeโย ย
Believing lies about ourselves keeps us in bondage; we become prisoners of our minds. We becomeย sad, bitter, angry, resentful and we feel dirty, we feel trapped and in despair. Sometimes we findย ways to cope by substituting one addiction or behavior with another one and we keep on goingย round and round, without healing and without a purpose.ย
Lies only have power when they areย believed! We were created to live free and to proclaim truth. And the only way to do it to through Jesus! In John 14:6 Jesus said, "I am the way and the truth and the lifeโ and He says in John 10:10ย โThe thief comes only in order to steal, kill, and destroy. I have come in order that you mightย have life-- in all its fullnessโ.ย
So, I donโt know which lie the enemy is using against you but I am here to tell you that Jesusย wants to free you!!! And when:ย
The enemy says: You can't figure it out.ย
God says: Iโll direct your steps. Proverbs 3:5-6ย
The enemy says: You are too tired.ย
God says: I will give you rest. Matthew 11:28-30ย
The enemy says: Itโs impossible.ย
God says: All things are possible. Luke 18:27ย
The enemy says: Nobody loves you.ย
God says: I love you. John 3:16ย
The enemy says: You canโt forgive yourself.ย
God says: I forgive you. Romans 8:1ย
The enemy says: Itโs not worth it.ย
God says: It will be worth it. Romans 8:28ย
The enemy says: You are not smart enough.ย
God says: I will give you wisdom. 1 Corinthians 1:30ย
The enemy says: You are not able.ย
God says: You are able. 2 Corinthians 9:8ย
The enemy says: You canโt go on.ย
God says: My grace is sufficient. 2 Corinthians 12:9ย
The enemy says: You canโt do it.ย
God says: You can do all things. Philippians 4:13ย
The enemy says: You canโt manage.ย
God says: I will supply all your needs. Philippians 4:19ย
The enemy says: Iโm afraid.ย
God says: I have not given you fear. 2 Timothy 1:7ย
The enemy says: You are alone.ย
God says: I will never leave you. Hebrews 13:5ย
The enemy says: You are depressed.ย
God says: You are an overcomer.ย John 16:3ย
The enemy says: You are worthless.ย
God says: You are valued. Luke 12:7ย
The enemy says: Your life is too hard, give up, you should kill your-self.ย
God says: So do not fear,ย for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I willย uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10ย
The enemy says: You canโt be forgiven.ย
God says: You are blameless.1 Corinthians 1:8
The enemy says: You are a failureย
God says: You are blessed with every spiritual blessing. Ephesiansย 1:3ย
The enemy says: You are not specialย
God says: You are Godโs handiwork. Ephesians 2:10ย
The enemy says: You donโt have what it takes.ย
God says: You are created in Christ Jesus to do goodย works, which God prepared in advance for you to do. Ephesians 2:10ย
The enemy says: There is no hope for you. You ruined everythingย
God says: I know the plans I haveย for you, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiahย 29:11ย
You canโt fight thoughts with thoughts, so itโs important to speak out Godโs truth when the enemyย lies. When we are able to combat the lies with the truth, they will lose the grip they had in ourย lives. And you will begin to walk in the freedom of who you were created to be. The bible says in 2ย Corinthians 10:5 We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against theย knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ. When Iย started seeking healing and freedom in Christ Jesus, I had to print several copies of all these truthsย and I taped them to the dashboard of my car, my closet, at work, my mirror, etc.โฆ. . And if you areย struggling to believe that truth! Pray for God to help you overcome your unbelief! I know theย struggleโฆand yes, the struggle is real! But so is Jesus!!! And He is GREATER!ย
So wherever the pain, hurt, brokenness, loss, is ok to mourn, is ok to grieve, is ok to cry and its okย to feel. But donโt get stuck and dwell!!!!! Pray, bring it to Jesus! Seek His healing, His restoring andย His mighty power. Share with someone you trust, pray and fast! Journal!! Itโs really ok not to be ok,ย because Jesus is! And child of God, forgive like you were forgiven! Forgiving is not forgetting isย simply letting go and letting God!ย
God knows your pain, He knows your brokenness. You might wonder: Where was God? Whyย would He allow me to be broken? Where is He now? In your deep grief, in the crime, captivity,ย illness, death of loved one, in your shattered hope, and broken dreams. His Truth saysย this: He was there. In the midst of it all! The bible says in 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. He is the Father who is full of mercy, theย God of all comfort. He comforts us every time we have trouble so that when others have trouble,ย we can comfort them with the same comfort God gives us. We share in the many sufferings ofย Christ. In the same way, much comfort comes to us through Christ. And though we may notย always see it, or feel it, or even understand it, we can know beyond a doubt that He is hereย now. Still. He is with us. For He will never leave us or forsake us, His love for us is greaterย than we could ever imagine. ย
Godโs truth has to shine through every bit of our grief, and pain, and sin. Christ came to set us free.ย He came to redeem, to bring hope. Christ came to bring beauty from ashes. He never intends for usย to stay stuck in our sin, pain, brokenness or deep sorrow. He is the God that heals and restores, Heย calls us onward, He reminds us that in Him, we have great purpose and HOPE. Thereโs beauty and greatness behind every mark of darkness. The ashes will fall away, they donโt stay forever, but His greatness and glory shine forever through every broken place and flaw weโve struggled through.ย
Child of the King you are beautiful! Not like the world standard of beauty. YOU ARE TRULYย BEAUTIFUL. Your beauty can stay hidden behind secrets if you choose to keep it that way. But if you embrace Godโs truth, God willย begin to reveal your beauty for others to see. HE WILL GIVE YOU BEAUTY FOR ASHES. Our story,ย our testimony is the very thing that brings light and freedom to someone else and brings glory toย Godโs name. Your story is the most powerful tool for the expansion of Godโs kingdom. God wantsย you to walk in the freedom that was purchased for us by Jesus in the cross. Donโt keep yourselfย prisoner, God has ransomed you! Jesus paid the prize for you!ย
Going through the healing and cleaning the wounds is really painful. The healing is a process, notย instant coffee. It can be though, because with God everything is possible. But healing begins by recognizing that a wound needs to be healed. Whether it is a painful memory, betrayal, abandonment, rejection, abuse, festering anger, bitterness, loss or a broken heartโฆOnce it is healed,ย all that is left is a scar. Our scars tell our story. They are a reminder of where God brought us through, but the scar should also be the reminder of the price JESUS paid for us! There is no one that can understand pain like Jesus does and itโs by His wounds that we can be healed.ย ย
So take heart! There is Hope in the Midst of Brokenness! God wants to heal you, restore you and use you. Is not enough to be free and to be healed. Think about it; if you were with friends in a burningย building and escaped, wouldnโt you try to help them out before they die? God gives us tools to helpย and fight for others to be set free. One of the most powerful tools is our testimony. God can use itย for His glory and for the expansion of His Kingdom.ย ย
2 Corinthians 5:18 says: โAll this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ andย gave us the ministry of reconciliationโ and He says in Psalm 107: 2 says: โHas the LORDย redeemed you? Then speak out! Tell others he has redeemed you from your enemiesโย
God wants to use your story, your pain and your experience to help another person. Today heย wants you to understand that it wasnโt in vain. That yes it was hard, but because it was so hard,ย someone else can be free. Your pain, your brokenness, your story is what qualifies you to speak lifeย into someone elseโs life. And that to me is all the hope we need!!! Donโt forget where you haveย come from and what God has carried you through. You are a steward of the story of a miracle ofย Godโs